dressing the same after having a baby

been thinking a lot about this so i wrote a substack post at 2AM. why do our brains automatically think we need to dress more “mom-like” when we have a child?? happy mom = happy baby, and happy mom is well dressed! baby tees, sheer skirts, belly button ring, face gems, it’s all staying around. i’ll be giving chic clown meets 90s rockstar gf at the park and my baby’s drip will be unmatched too